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Aries the Ram
March 21st to April 20th
March 21st to April 20th
Aries is a cardinal sign. Persons born under these signs are active, self-motivated, usually ambitious; they like to generate momentum in any group of people in which they find themselves. It is always at work, initiating new avenues for self-expression.
How to Recognize Aries
Male or female, these people will fight what they feel is an injustice on the spot, and they’re not bashful about voicing their opinions. He is deeply committed to some idealistic cause and angrily defending the underdog. Mars people come straight to the point.
The ram is conscious only of himself. His needs come first. Aries is concerned with the world only as it relates to himself. The ram fears nothing until he gets burned.
There’s not a trace of cunning wile in the ram, and he’ll remain this way throughout his lifetime; forever believing with all his heart, always falling down and getting up again to try once more
.
What you see before you is what he is. There’s nothing hidden or complicated about him. He doesn’t need delicate strategy. Lung power and self-absorbed determination suffice beautifully to allow him to get his way.
If you see him openly weeping, you can be certain that he is being cut to the very soul in some way. Aries would rather be caught dead than be caught weak.
The ram will seldom glance nervously around the room. When he does, he’s no longer interested in talking with you. Something else has caught his attention, and for the moment, you are forgotten.
Deceptiveness and deviousness are entirely foreign to the Mars nature. Frankness and refreshing honesty are Arien trademarks, yet rams don’t make the best credit risks.
The ram would be wise to steel himself and see that dentist regularly, guard his eyesight, watch his diet, treat head colds seriously, and stay away from alcohol. Skin rashes, painful knee caps and stomach disorders also plague those born in late March or April. The ram’s constitution is strong and tough. If he doesn’t abuse it, which he usually does, by ignoring it. He can survive fevers high enough to kill the average person. And many of them are brought on by his headstrong Mars tendency to carry through under adverse circumstances, at the wrong times with the wrong people. The angry impatience and frustration this always triggers is the real cause of his health problems. His reaction to delay makes him ill , and the conscious cultivation of patience and cautious deliberation would keep the doctor away. There’s not much danger of an Aries become addicted to drugs.
Because of his forceful optimism, Aries seldom fall victim to the chronic, lingering diseases – which are triggered by melancholy and pessimism. The fire signs are more susceptible to raging fevers, fulminating infections, strokes, high blood pressure and violently acute illness. The precious idea Aries holds, that no one else can do anything as efficiently as he can, may run away with him and lead to a thousand disasters. He’ll carry through his schemes with dash and confidence, seldom realizing that he’s overreaching himself and headed for ulcers or nervous breakdowns. No one ever accuses him of laziness.
Because of their guileless nature, subtle tricks of strategy are impossible for these people. He learns modesty and humility only after many dismal failures.
He reaches leadership only by first respecting those above him in credit and stature, yet success, when it comes, is normally gigantic and impressive. Strangely, most Aries people often create wealth for others, rather than for themselves.
Though Aries pushes ahead with confidence, caring little for the feelings of others, and his attitude, especially in youth, is “me first,” he can be the warmest and most generous of all the sun signs. He’s not cruel. He just honestly believes that he can do anything better than anyone else, and he’s psychologically unable to stand by while others fumble and flop.
The ram has a way of making instant decisions without the authority of his superiors. His speech can be satirical and cutting in invective.
Mars people are often accused of having a terrible temper. They have. But they also have a complete inability to remain angry, and once over with, the grievance is generally buried and forgotten. He seeks acceptance, even while he heedlessly and deliberately courts rejection. Aries people seldom become angry with individuals. You may get the shower of sparks, but the fire is actually directed toward an idea or a situation he finds intolerable.
The typical ram will dine with beggars and kings with equal ease and genuine affection. Patience with detail isn’t his strong point. He’d rather leave the minor, petty statistics to someone else.
The ram cares nothing for yesterday’s lessons, and tomorrow is too far away to worry about. Today is his natural residence. This hour and this minute. He’s totally consumed in the action of the moment.
A realist, yet a decided idealist, Aries often defy emotional description. No one can show such tough, forceful behavior. Mars people are literally incapable of accepting defeat. They won’t recognize it – even when it stares them in the face. They’re incurable optimists about the end result of anything from love to a basketball game. Being very clever in-fighters, the ram battles best with their heads, meaning their minds. They enjoy opposition because of the challenge it presents, and they’ll go out of their way to meet an obstacle and conquer it long before it comes to them.
They arouse popular sympathy easily, yet they don’t necessarily make good politicians. The field of politics is difficult for the average ram. For one thing, he’s not the very best economist in the world. For another, he’s impulsive in his speech and he hates to hedge, both deadly traits for a politician.
Most Aries people are usually happier in business, or the creative arts, where they’re so desperately needed. Others may excel in planning strategy. Calmer heads and more practical minds may be better at efficient organization. But without the direct action, energy and originality of the rams, the most desirable projects would fail to the ground or make little headway.
Aries is far happier when he’s talking about himself and his ideas than about anybody or anything else. He’ll be an attentive listener, especially if your ideas are exciting and progressive. He enjoys doing favors, the larger the charitable gesture the better; but the ram wants his credit when it’s coming to him.
His urge to toss the past in the trash can and go forward at full speed (one of the chief reasons he adapts to new locations and people so painlessly) makes him think those who try to reason with him are interfering with his progress.
He is the pioneer, always leading others onward to an impossible goal. His beautiful iron faith is pure – unmixed with the alloys of hypocrisy and greed. He seldom amasses a fortune, and if he did, he would be too busy to stop and count it. Help yourself to his money, clothes or time. He always has some to spare, however pressed or poor he may be temporarily. The ram knows that bread cast on the waters not only feeds his ego and returns again increased, but it makes people happy, one of the things he enjoys most in life. To Aries, miracles are a dime a dozen.
How to Recognize Aries
Male or female, these people will fight what they feel is an injustice on the spot, and they’re not bashful about voicing their opinions. He is deeply committed to some idealistic cause and angrily defending the underdog. Mars people come straight to the point.
The ram is conscious only of himself. His needs come first. Aries is concerned with the world only as it relates to himself. The ram fears nothing until he gets burned.
There’s not a trace of cunning wile in the ram, and he’ll remain this way throughout his lifetime; forever believing with all his heart, always falling down and getting up again to try once more
.
What you see before you is what he is. There’s nothing hidden or complicated about him. He doesn’t need delicate strategy. Lung power and self-absorbed determination suffice beautifully to allow him to get his way.
If you see him openly weeping, you can be certain that he is being cut to the very soul in some way. Aries would rather be caught dead than be caught weak.
The ram will seldom glance nervously around the room. When he does, he’s no longer interested in talking with you. Something else has caught his attention, and for the moment, you are forgotten.
Deceptiveness and deviousness are entirely foreign to the Mars nature. Frankness and refreshing honesty are Arien trademarks, yet rams don’t make the best credit risks.
The ram would be wise to steel himself and see that dentist regularly, guard his eyesight, watch his diet, treat head colds seriously, and stay away from alcohol. Skin rashes, painful knee caps and stomach disorders also plague those born in late March or April. The ram’s constitution is strong and tough. If he doesn’t abuse it, which he usually does, by ignoring it. He can survive fevers high enough to kill the average person. And many of them are brought on by his headstrong Mars tendency to carry through under adverse circumstances, at the wrong times with the wrong people. The angry impatience and frustration this always triggers is the real cause of his health problems. His reaction to delay makes him ill , and the conscious cultivation of patience and cautious deliberation would keep the doctor away. There’s not much danger of an Aries become addicted to drugs.
Because of his forceful optimism, Aries seldom fall victim to the chronic, lingering diseases – which are triggered by melancholy and pessimism. The fire signs are more susceptible to raging fevers, fulminating infections, strokes, high blood pressure and violently acute illness. The precious idea Aries holds, that no one else can do anything as efficiently as he can, may run away with him and lead to a thousand disasters. He’ll carry through his schemes with dash and confidence, seldom realizing that he’s overreaching himself and headed for ulcers or nervous breakdowns. No one ever accuses him of laziness.
Because of their guileless nature, subtle tricks of strategy are impossible for these people. He learns modesty and humility only after many dismal failures.
He reaches leadership only by first respecting those above him in credit and stature, yet success, when it comes, is normally gigantic and impressive. Strangely, most Aries people often create wealth for others, rather than for themselves.
Though Aries pushes ahead with confidence, caring little for the feelings of others, and his attitude, especially in youth, is “me first,” he can be the warmest and most generous of all the sun signs. He’s not cruel. He just honestly believes that he can do anything better than anyone else, and he’s psychologically unable to stand by while others fumble and flop.
The ram has a way of making instant decisions without the authority of his superiors. His speech can be satirical and cutting in invective.
Mars people are often accused of having a terrible temper. They have. But they also have a complete inability to remain angry, and once over with, the grievance is generally buried and forgotten. He seeks acceptance, even while he heedlessly and deliberately courts rejection. Aries people seldom become angry with individuals. You may get the shower of sparks, but the fire is actually directed toward an idea or a situation he finds intolerable.
The typical ram will dine with beggars and kings with equal ease and genuine affection. Patience with detail isn’t his strong point. He’d rather leave the minor, petty statistics to someone else.
The ram cares nothing for yesterday’s lessons, and tomorrow is too far away to worry about. Today is his natural residence. This hour and this minute. He’s totally consumed in the action of the moment.
A realist, yet a decided idealist, Aries often defy emotional description. No one can show such tough, forceful behavior. Mars people are literally incapable of accepting defeat. They won’t recognize it – even when it stares them in the face. They’re incurable optimists about the end result of anything from love to a basketball game. Being very clever in-fighters, the ram battles best with their heads, meaning their minds. They enjoy opposition because of the challenge it presents, and they’ll go out of their way to meet an obstacle and conquer it long before it comes to them.
They arouse popular sympathy easily, yet they don’t necessarily make good politicians. The field of politics is difficult for the average ram. For one thing, he’s not the very best economist in the world. For another, he’s impulsive in his speech and he hates to hedge, both deadly traits for a politician.
Most Aries people are usually happier in business, or the creative arts, where they’re so desperately needed. Others may excel in planning strategy. Calmer heads and more practical minds may be better at efficient organization. But without the direct action, energy and originality of the rams, the most desirable projects would fail to the ground or make little headway.
Aries is far happier when he’s talking about himself and his ideas than about anybody or anything else. He’ll be an attentive listener, especially if your ideas are exciting and progressive. He enjoys doing favors, the larger the charitable gesture the better; but the ram wants his credit when it’s coming to him.
His urge to toss the past in the trash can and go forward at full speed (one of the chief reasons he adapts to new locations and people so painlessly) makes him think those who try to reason with him are interfering with his progress.
He is the pioneer, always leading others onward to an impossible goal. His beautiful iron faith is pure – unmixed with the alloys of hypocrisy and greed. He seldom amasses a fortune, and if he did, he would be too busy to stop and count it. Help yourself to his money, clothes or time. He always has some to spare, however pressed or poor he may be temporarily. The ram knows that bread cast on the waters not only feeds his ego and returns again increased, but it makes people happy, one of the things he enjoys most in life. To Aries, miracles are a dime a dozen.
[Taurus] [Gemini] [Cancer] [Leo] [Virgo] [Libra]
[Scorpio] [Sagittarius] [Capricorn] [Aquarius] [Pisces]
[Scorpio] [Sagittarius] [Capricorn] [Aquarius] [Pisces]
The Aries Man
Aries can overwhelm you with passionate ardor one minute, and be as icy as a polar bear the next. Insult him or lose his interest – either or both – and that warm, impulsive Mars nature will freeze instantly. To ignite it again may mean starting all over from Act one, Scene one.
Aries men are fairly bursting with ideas and creative energy. Keeping up with him may be tiring, but keep up you’d better. At least mentally. Aries has a way of leaving the snails, behind and not glancing back.
The aries man is impatient with slow pokes, bold and confident, always ahead of others, and sometimes ahead of himself as well. He can be the soul of generosity, giving his time, money, sympathy, and possessions by the carload cheerfully to strangers. But he can also be exasperatingly intolerant, thoughtless, selfish and demanding, when his desires are delayed, or he’s forced to be around negative people.
When it comes to love, his heedless attitude is absolutely amazing. He’ll plunge into an affair, positive that this is the only true love ever known by any two people ever born, with the possible exception of Romeo and Juliet.
No matter how many romantic mistakes he makes, the ram is sure his true love or soul mate is just around the next dream. Unless you’re a Scorpio female, the Aries man is as passionate as any woman could ask. Aries isn’t capable of going halfway. He gives all of himself to the burning interest of the moment.
No other sign can be as scrupulously faithful as Aries when he’s really in love for keeps. His honesty will usually keep him from fooling you, and his idealism will keep him from wanting to. Promiscuity or even light flirtations are not an Aries habit, no matter what the books tell you.
As sincere as he is in his present devotion and promises of complete loyalty (which are undoubtedly absolutely true), his need for romance is so strong that he’s capable of looking elsewhere if you don’t keep his illusions alive constantly.
Aries males whose sweethearts neglect romance are heartbroken at first. Then they become angry. Then they go looking for a princess who doesn’t snore and things like that.
If you learn how to open your eyes and look at him mistily and all the rest of it, he’ll stay with you happily, and ignore every female on earth for you. The ram is highly unlikely to commit himself physically to more than one woman at a time. The decision to break off the old will always be made before becoming too deeply involved with the new. You’’ have plenty of warning. An aries man can rarely pretend a passion he doesn’t feel.
Just don’t be dull, negative of overly timid. To hold him, you’’’ have to be a combination of Grace Kelly, Ursula Andress, Marie Dressler, Madame Curie, and Queen Victoria, with a little bit of Clare Boothe Luce thrown in. No one princess will ever satisfy his image of the ideal. He’s both an idealist and an egotist, which means he hates to admit he’s wrong, or that the love he chose could die. After a separation, if you catch him in the right mood, you can fire his romance all over again, if you act as if there had never been any previous intimacy. Adultery is actually distasteful to his honest nature.
If you have any ideas about playing games with him by flirting – drop them. Your first indiscretion will probably be your last. You can lose him with just a whisper or an intimate look at another man, let alone any actual infidelity. He insists on being first in everything. Aries is a possessive and jealous in the extreme. You’ll simply have to understand that his animated conversations with other women are innocent, because he’ll demand all the freedom of social contact he denies to you, and then some.
The Aries male is a natural rebel. He loves to defy authority and he thinks he was born smarter than anyone else. Because of his need to lead and refusal to follow, those in more powerful positions will teach him frequent lessons in humility. Never make the mistake of agreeing with his momentary enemy, or trying to be fair and seeing the other side of the controversy. You must love what he loves and hate what he hates.
There are no subtle tricks in the Aries nature. It’s not at all hard to recognize when a Mars man is finished with a relationship. The ice and boredom in his voice and manner will be unmistakable, and will usually be accompanied by a frank statement that makes it crystal clear. You have more reason to fear his ice that his fire.
Aries male don’t like games. He’ll be direct in all his approaches. And that means in romance, as well as in business. The quickest way to lose him is to make the first advance. He must be the leader here, as elsewhere. It you don’t allow him to be, he can lose interest so fast it can astonish you and crush you at the same time. Love with an aries man is like walking a tightrope between warm interest and aloof detachment. Don’t run after him. Don’t run away from him, either. You have to keep him guessing, even after you’re his. At the same time, he needs the assurance that your love is always there. Learn to live with it – or learn to live without an Aries.
The Aries male will expect his lady fair to be ultra-feminine and a tomboy at the same time. He wants you to be completely independent, yet willing to stay a few paces behind him. He’ll expect you to praise him and be devoted to him, but never play the role of humble slavey. You’ll have to like all his friends, while he reserves the right to be bored by yours.
Once you’ve married him, the Aries male will dominate the home or leave it. He won’t stand for being nagged in public or private. Never question his financial affairs. It’s essential that he control the purse strings all the way.
Each new baby will find him behaving like the devoted, proud papa of your dreams. Fatherhood is definitely a role he’ll enjoy.
It’s easier for him to forgive instant suppers or quick frozen kumquats than to forgive your lack of faith in his ideas. That’s important to remember.
Encourage his independence, but try to curb his impulsiveness – tactfully. He must lead or life is worth little to him. The minute he loses authority on the job or in the home, his refreshing optimism will turn to moody discontent and finally, complete disinterest. It’s not his nature to submit. He’s a man’s man. Never destroy his masculinity, but never lose your own individuality. Don’t try to push him around, and don’t let him push you around. You’ll have to aim somewhere in the middle.
Aries can overwhelm you with passionate ardor one minute, and be as icy as a polar bear the next. Insult him or lose his interest – either or both – and that warm, impulsive Mars nature will freeze instantly. To ignite it again may mean starting all over from Act one, Scene one.
Aries men are fairly bursting with ideas and creative energy. Keeping up with him may be tiring, but keep up you’d better. At least mentally. Aries has a way of leaving the snails, behind and not glancing back.
The aries man is impatient with slow pokes, bold and confident, always ahead of others, and sometimes ahead of himself as well. He can be the soul of generosity, giving his time, money, sympathy, and possessions by the carload cheerfully to strangers. But he can also be exasperatingly intolerant, thoughtless, selfish and demanding, when his desires are delayed, or he’s forced to be around negative people.
When it comes to love, his heedless attitude is absolutely amazing. He’ll plunge into an affair, positive that this is the only true love ever known by any two people ever born, with the possible exception of Romeo and Juliet.
No matter how many romantic mistakes he makes, the ram is sure his true love or soul mate is just around the next dream. Unless you’re a Scorpio female, the Aries man is as passionate as any woman could ask. Aries isn’t capable of going halfway. He gives all of himself to the burning interest of the moment.
No other sign can be as scrupulously faithful as Aries when he’s really in love for keeps. His honesty will usually keep him from fooling you, and his idealism will keep him from wanting to. Promiscuity or even light flirtations are not an Aries habit, no matter what the books tell you.
As sincere as he is in his present devotion and promises of complete loyalty (which are undoubtedly absolutely true), his need for romance is so strong that he’s capable of looking elsewhere if you don’t keep his illusions alive constantly.
Aries males whose sweethearts neglect romance are heartbroken at first. Then they become angry. Then they go looking for a princess who doesn’t snore and things like that.
If you learn how to open your eyes and look at him mistily and all the rest of it, he’ll stay with you happily, and ignore every female on earth for you. The ram is highly unlikely to commit himself physically to more than one woman at a time. The decision to break off the old will always be made before becoming too deeply involved with the new. You’’ have plenty of warning. An aries man can rarely pretend a passion he doesn’t feel.
Just don’t be dull, negative of overly timid. To hold him, you’’’ have to be a combination of Grace Kelly, Ursula Andress, Marie Dressler, Madame Curie, and Queen Victoria, with a little bit of Clare Boothe Luce thrown in. No one princess will ever satisfy his image of the ideal. He’s both an idealist and an egotist, which means he hates to admit he’s wrong, or that the love he chose could die. After a separation, if you catch him in the right mood, you can fire his romance all over again, if you act as if there had never been any previous intimacy. Adultery is actually distasteful to his honest nature.
If you have any ideas about playing games with him by flirting – drop them. Your first indiscretion will probably be your last. You can lose him with just a whisper or an intimate look at another man, let alone any actual infidelity. He insists on being first in everything. Aries is a possessive and jealous in the extreme. You’ll simply have to understand that his animated conversations with other women are innocent, because he’ll demand all the freedom of social contact he denies to you, and then some.
The Aries male is a natural rebel. He loves to defy authority and he thinks he was born smarter than anyone else. Because of his need to lead and refusal to follow, those in more powerful positions will teach him frequent lessons in humility. Never make the mistake of agreeing with his momentary enemy, or trying to be fair and seeing the other side of the controversy. You must love what he loves and hate what he hates.
There are no subtle tricks in the Aries nature. It’s not at all hard to recognize when a Mars man is finished with a relationship. The ice and boredom in his voice and manner will be unmistakable, and will usually be accompanied by a frank statement that makes it crystal clear. You have more reason to fear his ice that his fire.
Aries male don’t like games. He’ll be direct in all his approaches. And that means in romance, as well as in business. The quickest way to lose him is to make the first advance. He must be the leader here, as elsewhere. It you don’t allow him to be, he can lose interest so fast it can astonish you and crush you at the same time. Love with an aries man is like walking a tightrope between warm interest and aloof detachment. Don’t run after him. Don’t run away from him, either. You have to keep him guessing, even after you’re his. At the same time, he needs the assurance that your love is always there. Learn to live with it – or learn to live without an Aries.
The Aries male will expect his lady fair to be ultra-feminine and a tomboy at the same time. He wants you to be completely independent, yet willing to stay a few paces behind him. He’ll expect you to praise him and be devoted to him, but never play the role of humble slavey. You’ll have to like all his friends, while he reserves the right to be bored by yours.
Once you’ve married him, the Aries male will dominate the home or leave it. He won’t stand for being nagged in public or private. Never question his financial affairs. It’s essential that he control the purse strings all the way.
Each new baby will find him behaving like the devoted, proud papa of your dreams. Fatherhood is definitely a role he’ll enjoy.
It’s easier for him to forgive instant suppers or quick frozen kumquats than to forgive your lack of faith in his ideas. That’s important to remember.
Encourage his independence, but try to curb his impulsiveness – tactfully. He must lead or life is worth little to him. The minute he loses authority on the job or in the home, his refreshing optimism will turn to moody discontent and finally, complete disinterest. It’s not his nature to submit. He’s a man’s man. Never destroy his masculinity, but never lose your own individuality. Don’t try to push him around, and don’t let him push you around. You’ll have to aim somewhere in the middle.
The Aries Woman
So you’re in love with an Aries girl. I don’t know whether to congratulate you or sympathize with you. She can get along without a man easier than any female you’ll ever meet.
She’ll always need that hero of her dreams to yearn of in her heart.
Doing it herself is, to her, the fastest way to get it done. The mars girl is determined to take the lead, to be the first to move to action, and that includes the action of making the first advance in romance. Aries females are the most likely of all the Sun signs to do the proposing, especially if the man is slow about naming the date. She wants to be the leader in the love affair.
She’s not afraid of your passionate intentions. Those she can handle. Her flight is based on the fear of putting tangled up with a worshiping slave or a lovestruck puppy dog, either one of whom would bore her to tears. The casual keep her guessing, and the chances are she’ll chase you into a corner, instead. A man who resists her impact always intrigues an Aries female. She can’t understand why she isn’t overwhelming him with her obvious charms.
Her aggressive drive may be hard to take, but her shining optimism and faith in tomorrow can be mighty uplifting.
The Aries girl is rather a pushover for flattery, if it has an honest base. Let her know you admire her, but don’t be too flowery or sugary about it. She doesn’t want to be obviously chased, yet she quickly loses interest if you’re too detached. She doesn’t want a completely domineering male, but neither will she warm up to a man who sits adoringly at her feet. Her strong desire to control the lover, conflicts with her secret wish to be controlled by him.
She must be proud of you to love you. But don’t be so important that you neglect to notice her talents and abilities. Don’t admire your favorite movie actress in her hearing, or pay too many compliments to her girl friends. When the Aries woman has been really hurt, she turns from fire to ice. Her fire burns hot and dies quickly. Her ice can be eternal. Memorize that, if you care deeply about her – and it’s doubtful that she’ll stand for you caring about her any other way. Aries plays for keeps.
She puts the loved one on a pedestal, expecting him to live up to an impossible image of perfection, stubbornly refusing to look at his clay feet, until they become too muddy for even her to miss.
She prefers the company of men to women. The Aries girl insists in complete freedom, before and after marriage. You’ll have to trust her wherever she goes and whatever she does. Aries girl is seldom able to love two men at the same time. She’s simply too honest for such deception.
Her love, like her speech and actions, is direct.
Mars females are often career girls. They can handle almost any profession a man can handle, from stockbroking to real estate. There’s practically nothing this woman won’t tackle.
Miracles have a way of happening to those who believe in them. Aries women certainly believe, sometimes to the point of foolishness.
She admires strength and tries to imitate it.
The Aries idealism and optimistic faith in human nature is often dashed to bits by reality.
Always defend her against her enemies. She can never forgive you if you fail to fight for her or take her side. An Aries woman will throw away fame or fortune defiantly right in the face of anyone who hurts a friend of hers. These women are nothing if not loyal.
An Aries woman can almost do anything when it is necessary. You’ll rarely find her complaining of illness or fatigue.
She can never respect a man who makes less money than she does. There’s a vain streak in a Mars woman which makes her sensitive about everything from her age to an innocent remark about how tired she looks, which she may take as hint that you think she looks like an old hag.
Keep the passion and romance alive in your marriage, or she’ll be miserably unhappy.
So you’re in love with an Aries girl. I don’t know whether to congratulate you or sympathize with you. She can get along without a man easier than any female you’ll ever meet.
She’ll always need that hero of her dreams to yearn of in her heart.
Doing it herself is, to her, the fastest way to get it done. The mars girl is determined to take the lead, to be the first to move to action, and that includes the action of making the first advance in romance. Aries females are the most likely of all the Sun signs to do the proposing, especially if the man is slow about naming the date. She wants to be the leader in the love affair.
She’s not afraid of your passionate intentions. Those she can handle. Her flight is based on the fear of putting tangled up with a worshiping slave or a lovestruck puppy dog, either one of whom would bore her to tears. The casual keep her guessing, and the chances are she’ll chase you into a corner, instead. A man who resists her impact always intrigues an Aries female. She can’t understand why she isn’t overwhelming him with her obvious charms.
Her aggressive drive may be hard to take, but her shining optimism and faith in tomorrow can be mighty uplifting.
The Aries girl is rather a pushover for flattery, if it has an honest base. Let her know you admire her, but don’t be too flowery or sugary about it. She doesn’t want to be obviously chased, yet she quickly loses interest if you’re too detached. She doesn’t want a completely domineering male, but neither will she warm up to a man who sits adoringly at her feet. Her strong desire to control the lover, conflicts with her secret wish to be controlled by him.
She must be proud of you to love you. But don’t be so important that you neglect to notice her talents and abilities. Don’t admire your favorite movie actress in her hearing, or pay too many compliments to her girl friends. When the Aries woman has been really hurt, she turns from fire to ice. Her fire burns hot and dies quickly. Her ice can be eternal. Memorize that, if you care deeply about her – and it’s doubtful that she’ll stand for you caring about her any other way. Aries plays for keeps.
She puts the loved one on a pedestal, expecting him to live up to an impossible image of perfection, stubbornly refusing to look at his clay feet, until they become too muddy for even her to miss.
She prefers the company of men to women. The Aries girl insists in complete freedom, before and after marriage. You’ll have to trust her wherever she goes and whatever she does. Aries girl is seldom able to love two men at the same time. She’s simply too honest for such deception.
Her love, like her speech and actions, is direct.
Mars females are often career girls. They can handle almost any profession a man can handle, from stockbroking to real estate. There’s practically nothing this woman won’t tackle.
Miracles have a way of happening to those who believe in them. Aries women certainly believe, sometimes to the point of foolishness.
She admires strength and tries to imitate it.
The Aries idealism and optimistic faith in human nature is often dashed to bits by reality.
Always defend her against her enemies. She can never forgive you if you fail to fight for her or take her side. An Aries woman will throw away fame or fortune defiantly right in the face of anyone who hurts a friend of hers. These women are nothing if not loyal.
An Aries woman can almost do anything when it is necessary. You’ll rarely find her complaining of illness or fatigue.
She can never respect a man who makes less money than she does. There’s a vain streak in a Mars woman which makes her sensitive about everything from her age to an innocent remark about how tired she looks, which she may take as hint that you think she looks like an old hag.
Keep the passion and romance alive in your marriage, or she’ll be miserably unhappy.